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But inter-generational relationships can be fraught with dangers, and most of these dangers come squarely down to one reason: poor management of expectations.
The older man in a relationship with a younger woman often struggles to correctly identify what it is that has attracted her in the first place.
This doesn’t mean that you have to talk at length about quantum physics or sub-Saharan politics.
The fact is, you have a rounded understanding of the world that reaches into a whole range of topics the younger man can’t even touch.
Sadly, this is something that younger guys are really bad at.
They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.
[Read: 10 spontaneous romantic moves men should try on a date] #4 DO take an interest in her.
Dating someone significantly older than me inevitably heightened my awareness of my own youth and its power.
The reality is, we live in a youth-obsessed culture and those standards are particularly high for women.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.