Reasons for and against online dating
This very basis of a relationship goes missing online, making it a bad idea altogether.Away from all these factors, if you still are someone who has found a partner online, with whom you share a bond that is pure and faithful, you are lucky beyond limits.There may be for a few days an intense feeling of connection and bonding, but this is short lived. The major reason being that we don’t know any background of the partner we found online. And hence, there is always a sense of suspicion, doubt and insecurity with an online partner. Loyalty Loyalty is an inevitable parameter of love.In the long run, it is almost impossible that both the hearts are equally loyal and serious for each other. For partners, insecurity, jealousy and anxiety are signs that they actually care for each other and have a sense of possession for them. What makes a relationship a relationship is loyalty. We never have the option to go for a background check for a partner we meet online. Even if we have some mutual friends, they can’t really be trusted. To find a relationship on the internet, where two hearts, even though miles apart, are loyal to each other, devoted to each other and ready to live together forever for each other, and only for each other is not only difficult but almost unattainable.
A partner ofcourse is the one with whom we plan a future and certainly share the most of our physical space. A person will certain try to be at his best when you meet him/her online.Not everyone is lucky enough to find a date from their own city.Even if you do, ofcourse you first interact online and then meet. For, in these bonds, no real meetings and interactions takes place at the primary level. We bond when we meet someone over a period of time, spend time talking together and being with each other in person. You may be very greatly bonded with someone you have hardly met. It involves not just emotional but also physical, mental and spiritual space.Thus, making for another reason why dating online is a bad idea. Physical Appearance: Not Enough How can we judge someone we meet online? Just because a person looks good, decent and sophisticated does not really assure it.So, it is always better to date someone you actually know. Desperacy Isn’t it a desperate way to look out for a partner?