Dating man woman 20 dating a flake
An older man’s going to be the strong, nurturing guy who takes care of her, teaches her, and treats her like a princess — the kind of relationship that she probably lacked growing up.
Hey, I’m no psychologist — just your friendly, neighborhood dating coach. Whether we like it or not, there is nearly a full generation gap between 28 and 45.
This is an obstacle that few relationships can overcome.
I very much enjoyed a 4-year relationship with a woman 14 years older when I was in my mid- to late-20s.
Would men consider having an open-ended relationship with a woman 15–20 years older? A full-on relationship involves not only commitments but also starts involving friends and family, which in turn means a degree of compatibility much greater than dating requires.
For this to work, it would be best for the woman to have taken good care of herself physically because most people (men AND women) do a first-level evaluation of a couple based on appearances, and it can get tiresome to constantly deal with how other people react to the couple for age-related reasons.
All the issues raised above of having a relationship apply, but also now you bring into the picture the additional issues of having children, different perspectives and priorities about money, as well as life-changing issues for the woman like retirement, menopause, and health issues a decade or more before the younger man will even begin relating to such concerns.
Time creates wisdom – but it also creates responsibilities and complications — mortgage, kids, career, etc.
All of this makes dating more and more complex as we get older. Still, most of them fail miserably, for the exact same reasons that I think Penelope is suggesting.
Do dress well Someone once told me a useful rule when it comes shopping for your age.
Twenties = shock; thirties = chic; forties and beyond = cheque. Leave the trend-led streetwear to youngsters who need to compensate for a lack of personality or confidence. Now is the time for creating a capsule wardrobe, a slick canvas of smart pieces which make the most of the fact that you can now actually carry-off “suave” without looking like you're wearing your dad's wedding suit to a funeral.