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But as more people choose to marry later in life, few social institutions have arisen to replace the role that local communities, families and schools once played.
Internet dating may finally be stepping into that breach.'' The Internet gives the impression, and it may or may not be truthful, that you can find someone who is more specifically tailored to your desires,'' said David M.
And despite the Web's reputation as a meeting ground for casual sex, a majority of the leading sites' paying subscribers now say that what they are looking for is a relationship. Many online daters turn out to be married, and it is taken for granted that everybody lies a little. Eddy when she saw a picture of him with a shaved head.
But they are more often trumped by a pervasive dissatisfaction with singles bars, dates set up by friends and other accepted ways of meeting prospective mates.'' My brother told me to join a canoeing club or something stupid like that,'' said Dan Eddy, 28, who met his fiancée, Sherry Sivik, 27, of North Ridgeville, Ohio, on She refused to meet him for weeks, afraid he would be ''some kind of lunatic.'' But after hearing that Mr. Sivik's friends, who had a long-running joke about trying to find her a bald guy with a Jeep, knew it was all over.
More than 45 million Americans visited online dating sites last month, up from about 35 million at the end of 2002, according to com Score Media Metrix, a Web tracking service.
Spending by subscribers on Web dating sites has soared, rising to a projected 0 million or more a quarter this year from under million a quarter at the beginning of 2001, according to the Online Publishers Association.
Gaitanis said.'' You can kind of get a feel: Are they dorky, are they going to be a slick cheeseball party guy? '' They can respond or not and at least you didn't spend any time writing an e-mail.'' There are still plenty of holdouts. Gaitanis's brother, John, 28, told her that online dating was ''strictly for losers.'' And even those who embrace online dating acknowledge a major flaw: the frequent disconnect between who people say they are online and what they are really like.
Web sites like (Time Out New York), and offer online dating services by pooling a collection of profiles submitted by their younger, more urban subscribers, through a template provided by their New York-based company, Spring Street Networks.
'' And if the person's cute it's hard not to give it some thought.'' But for Jonathan Gerstel, 40, a university fund-raiser who was looking for a Jewish woman in Durham, N.
C., with a kind disposition and at least shoulder-length hair, JDate proved the perfect tool.
Carrington, whose husband died several years ago, said she recently had dinner with an investment adviser she met through the service and felt drawn to him because of a shared experience with a family member's mental illness.'' Just to have someone in the running is nice,'' she said.
As it did for book buying and auctioning used toys, the Internet reduces the transaction costs of meeting romantic prospects.