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If you are dating a vanilla woman or someone new to kink and are not sure if they are interested in dominating you, the only way to find out is to ask.If you are nervous about asking directly you can always bring up your fetishes or kinks to try to get the conversation rolling.Being involved in the community also has the benefit of allowing you to vet a potential Domme.If she is involved in your local BDSM community, others will be able to give you a good idea if she is experienced and if she is a safe player.Regardless of whether you’re on a dating site or a kink site when you are sending a Domme a message, make sure your message reflects that you have read her profile.Sending something that says “Your pictures are hot I would love for you to be my Mistress,” isn’t going to get her attention and will probably get you blocked.Finding a good vanilla woman is difficult, but it's nothing compared to trying to find a Domme.
Dominant women get up to a hundred form messages a week on Fetlife from submissives (usually men) asking them to be their Domme.
Before sending a potential Domme anything, read her profile.
Find out what she is looking for and don’t bug her if her profile says she is not looking.
This is not necessarily the best or easiest way to find someone, but it does sometimes work.
You can always try to find a Domme on Fet Life, but keep in mind that Fetlife is NOT a dating site. Kinksters see Fetlife as a Facebook where they can talk to fellow kinky friends and post pictures that are too pervy for Facebook.